All Things Melanin

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All Things Melanin
Shelby and Erica share their experiences around stigmas put on Black women, having discernment in your business, and walking away from people and things that no longer serve you. Words of wisdom from Psalms 18:30. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.
All Things Melanin
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Make it make sense

Shelby and Erica share their experiences around stigmas put on Black women, having discernment in your business, and walking away from people and things that no longer serve you. Words of wisdom from Psalms 18:30. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

I ain’t saying you a gold digga…

Shelby and Erica share their opinion on the “right time” to bring up finances in a relationship. They provide insight into how they’re able to work so well together in growing their brand and share tips to working smarter together and not against one another, and give advice on what to do if you don’t feel like your friends and family are supporting your business. Words of wisdom from Luke 6:37-38. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Not Playing Around

Shelby and Erica debate if you should keep your options open when dating, and if men or women have more options when it comes to the dating pool. They share ways to overcome a creative block, and give advice on how to make new friends as an adult. Words of wisdom from John 13:7. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Brag on Yourself!

Shelby and Erica dive into the importance of having high standards and firm boundaries when dating, and their experience in the past when they let things slide. They switch things up and Shelby interviews Erica for her business, Erica L. Murphy Interiors, LLC, and Erica shares the ups and downs of launching and growing her business. They give advice on how to navigate having a touchy conversation with your partner. Words of wisdom from John 15:7. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Turn It Up a Notch

Shelby and Erica are back in their dating era, so they’re sharing ways to put themselves out there and meet a new love interest, they chat about the growth of All Things Melanin since 2017, and give advice on how to shake the guilt of putting yourself first. Words of wisdom from Psalms 32:8. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

The Token Black Girl

Shelby and Erica settle the debacle of the $200 date debate and if it matters how much a date costs. They then dive into a deep discussion on their experience in corporate America and being one of few or the only one person of color in their department or at their company, and how they navigate the emotions of it all. They give advice on navigating when to fight or let go of a friendship you’ve had for decades. Words of wisdom from Mark 2:2-5. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Everything is Figureoutable

Shelby and Erica delve into their thoughts surrounding societal pressures of dating in your 30’s and how they’re navigating this tricky space, they share the challenges of having to figure out things they don't know how to do, and share their advice on feeling stuck in a waiting season. Words of wisdom from Peter 5:6-7. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Pray For Ya Friends!

Shelby and Erica are back, and they’re opening up this new season celebrating the anniversary of All Things Melanin! They start the show off by reflecting on where they started and where they hope to grow to in the future. Then they chat about green flags to look out for in friendships and the importance of having the right friend group around you. They then switch gears to discuss the journey of All Things Melanin up until now, and give advice on moving past the friend stage when it comes to dating. Words of wisdom come from Proverbs 12:26. . . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Whoop, Red Flag!

Shelby and Erica discuss the biggest red flags to be aware of on a first date, sharing some of our favorite “wins” and memories from creating All Things Melain so far, and how to go from burnout to well rested. Words of encouragement from Proverbs 19:21. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

All Advice Ain’t Good Advice

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on men’s "brutal" relationship advice and the best relationship advice they’ve received, tips we’ve learned from building a brand from the ground up, and what to do when your dream seems to be taking “too” long to take off. Words of encouragement from Psalm 105: 4-5. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

A Test of Faith

Shelby and Erica share if they would date a man with a child(ren), and if so, what their guidelines are, the importance of discipline when trying to figure it out, and navigating being laid off. Words of encouragement from Exodus 14:14. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna . . *If you or someone you know is dealing with depression or not feeling your best, we encourage you to seek professional help. . Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255. . Text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741.

Go Off Sis

Shelby and Erica discuss the importance and value of men who not only show up financially but emotionally as well, how to overcome feelings of inadequacy and comparing yourself to others on your journey, and how to deal with conflict in a bridal party. Words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:32. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

Shelby and Erica discuss their thoughts and feelings around the 80/20 rule for relationships, the importance of setting firm boundaries and standards in your career, and navigating feeling left out of your friend group. Words of encouragement from Matthew 14: 27-32. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna .

Thanks, Management!

Shelby and Erica share what past relationships have taught them and what they’re working on to be the best version of themselves for their future partner, what to do when you aren’t seeing results in your career or personal project, and whether to ghost a new love interest or not. Words of encouragement from Romans 15:13. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna .

All My Independent Women

Shelby and Erica discuss their views on society/ culture shaping our views on being an independent woman and the negative stance surrounding independent women, how to stay consistent when building a brand, and tips on how to transition your side hustle to your main hustle. Words of wisdom from Isaiah 55:8-9. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

2023 Came in Swingin’

Shelby and Erica are back with a brand new season!! They share questions and conversations to have with your partner when you think they may be “the one,” lessons they’ve learned in their corporate career and personal projects, and what to do if someone you just met is doing too much. Words of encouragement from Luke 6:37. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.

Are You The One?

Shelby and Erica discuss if they could go on a dating show, and if so, which one. They also share their personal projects and businesses they’re working on and how to say no. Words of wisdom from Deuteronomy 31:6. . Follow Erica’s virtual interior design business here https://www.instagram.com/elminteriors_/. . Stay in the know & follow Shelby’s journey to launching a line of digital planners and journals here https://www.instagram.com/sbcreativeandco/ . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

Go BIG or Go Home

Shelby and Erica discuss how to know if a friendship is worth nurturing or letting go, the power in dreaming, and how to overcome imposter syndrome. Words of wisdom from 2 Peter 3:9. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

Who Sent You

Shelby and Erica discuss where to meet someone new and how to know if you should continue dating them after a few dates, how to create your own lane, and questions to ask to see if you’re violating the girl code. Words of wisdom from Matthew 6:6. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community at https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

Get Busy!

Shelby and Erica discuss how to balance romantic relationships and friendships so no one feels neglected, what all goes into interviewing guests on our podcast and share tips on how to live it up in your single season. Words of wisdom from Numbers 6:24-26. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

Focus on Yourself Sis

Shelby and Erica share the importance of healing before dating again, the importance of remembering your “WHY” when pursuing your dreams, and the steps to take when you’re ready to pursue your passion. Words of wisdom from Exodus 14:14. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

Friend or Foe?

Shelby and Erica discuss what a “safe space” looks like in romantic relationships and friendships, the importance of setting firm and healthy boundaries, and when you should talk money with your partner. Words of wisdom from John 13:7. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.

I’m THAT Girl!

Shelby and Erica debate on if age is just a number when it comes to dating, what we know now vs. 5 years on our journey to building a brand, and our advice for singles looking to be in a relationship. Words of wisdom are from Psalm 27:13. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica . Keep up with Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com

It’s Our Anniversary

Shelby and Erica are celebrating All Things Melanin turning 5! They share if they’ve ever shot their shot with a guy before, the journey to All Things Melanin turning 5, and how to get over feeling stuck at work. Words of wisdom are from Luke 16:10. . Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. . Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica . Keep up with Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com

Real Talk

Shelby and Erica discuss the importance of having in-depth conversations about past relationships with your partner, what people don't tell you about building a brand, and how to navigate the dating scene. Leaving you with words of wisdom from Colossians 3:23. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected]. . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

SetBack For A Setup

Shelby and Erica share red flags they look out for in dating, the pros and cons of remote work, and how to ease back into the dating game. Words of wisdom from Zechariah 4:10. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

Celebrate All Wins feat. Tasha McCaskiel

Shelby and Erica discuss the hardest part about getting into a healthy relationship after a toxic one and dive into what it takes to build a brand on their journey. They're joined by Tasha McCaskiel, founder of Black Girls in Media, who shares her journey in building community, her brand, all while holding down a 9-5. We wrap up this week's episode by sharing how to navigate the in-between stage life and leave you with words of wisdom from 1 Peter 4:10. . Keep up with Tasha on IG at https://www.instagram.com/tashjmackk/ as well as Twitter https://twitter.com/tashjmackk. . Follow Black Girls in Media on IG at https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsinmedia/. . Keep up with Erica at https://www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at https://www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ and www.shelbybrenna.com

From Bae to Blockedt

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on how they deal with someone from their past popping back into their lives romantically, how they're navigating corporate America, and knowing when to move. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Ephesians 4:2. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

Come Holla At Me

Shelby and Erica share what "their type" is and if it's changed over the years, share how they balance work and personal projects, and their thoughts on how to overcome feeling behind. Words of wisdom come from Ephesians 3:20. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

Loyalty Over Everything

Shelby and Erica discuss the impact and importance of genuine friendship, how they work together to continually grow and build All Things Melanin, and their opinions on reconnecting with "old friends." We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Mark 2:2-5. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

It's A Me Season

Shelby and Erica share what self-reflection has taught them about past relationships, why it's important to remember your "why" on your journey to building your brand, and how to strive for your goals without becoming overwhelmed. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Habakkuk 2:2. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

It Ain't Easy

Shelby and Erica are back for a new season. After catching up, Shelby and Erica share the importance of setting firm boundaries and having high standards, what we've learned so far on our journey to building our brand, and how to overcome self-doubt. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:3. . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

No Shade

Shelby and Erica share their responses to men's opinons of women, how we've improved our creative process on our journey, and how to tell your family to get out of your love life. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from 1 Peter 4:10. . . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . . To keep up with Terica, visit her website at www.tericabphoto.com/ and IG www.instagram.com/tericabphoto/ . . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

On My Level

Shelby and Erica share lessons they've learned from their latest dating situations and what they're manifesting in love going forward. They share how to collaborate with guests efficiently, how to find your purpose on your journey through life, and leave you with words of wisdom from Luke 16:10. . . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . . To keep up with Terica, visit her website at www.tericabphoto.com/ and IG www.instagram.com/tericabphoto/ . . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

What It Means to Hustle feat. Terica of Terica B Photography

Shelby and Erica share their opinions on "checking" your partner publically, and what it means to hustle when building your brand. Lifestyle photographer and influencer Terica stops by and shares her journey to building her personal brand and photography business. We're wrapping up this week's episode giving advice on what to do with friends who give the bare minimum. and leaving you with words of wisdom from Jeremiah 32:27. . . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . . To keep up with Terica, visit her website at www.tericabphoto.com/ and IG www.instagram.com/tericabphoto/ . . Keep up with Erica at www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . . Keep up with Shelby at www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

Just Do It feat. Nisha of Beauty and a Book Box

Shelby and Erica are sharing their thoughts on marriage being “just a piece of paper” and where they stand on this debate, and how to turn your fear into fuel in stepping out on faith to follow your dreams. Nisha from Beauty and a 
Book Box shares her journey to launching a subscription box focusing on literacy and beauty. We wrap up this week’s episode with sharing our thoughts on ex’s popping back in the picture and leave you with words of wisdom fro Joshua 1:9. . . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . . To keep up with Nisha’s subscription box, you can find her at https://www.beautyandabookbox.com/retreat| IG and Facebook @beautyandabookretreat . . Keep up with Erica at https://www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . . Keep up with Shelby at https://www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ & www.shelbybrenna.com

Let's Get Real feat. Talib of Afros & Audio

Shelby and Erica discuss what they bring to the table in dating that isn't tangible and doesn't involve status. They share their most challenging lessons in building a brand. Talib, founder of Afros & Adios stops by to share his journey to building community and sharing opportunities for Black podcast creatives. They wrap up the episode with how to not let outside opinions stop you from following your dreams and leave you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:2. . . Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] . . To keep up with Talib, you can find him at www.afrosandaudio.com | IG and Facebook @afrosandaudio . . Keep up with Erica at https://www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA . . Keep up with Shelby at https://www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ and www.shelbybrenna.com

Ride or Die

One thing about Shelby and Erica, they are ride or die for each other. This week, we’re sharing personal projects we’re working on separately and why it’s so important to support each other on things we do together and alone. We share our thoughts on who should pick up the tab on the first date, the man or the woman. We’re sharing why it’s so important to support one another in our personal projects as well as things we do together on our journey to building our brand, we’re dishing out advice on a hating bridesmaid and leaving you with words of wisdom from Matthew 6:34. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/ Keep up with Erica at https://www.instagram.com/love_erica987/ and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfE6cAahy_snLa7328FtgSA Keep up with Shelby at https://www.instagram.com/shelbybrenna_/ and https://www.shelbybrenna.com/

Say It With Your Chest

Shelby and Erica celebrate a milestone of 15,000+ listens at the beginning of this week’s episode (S/O to the Melanin Fam.) We’re sharing our thoughts on if age really matters when dating, knowing when to rest on your journey to building your brand, and offering advice on how to recognize true friends. We’re leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:3. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Where Is The Girl Code?

Shelby and Erica are back and they get right into with their thoughts on the bombs that #RHOA Porsha Williams dropped and the lack of girl code. We’re dishing on the importance of friendship and what makes a good friend, how we’re navigating doing more while holding down a 9-5, as well as dishing out advice on what to do when family or friends don’t support your journey. We’re leaving you with words of encouragement from Psalms 94:19. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at [email protected] Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Take the Risk

Shelby and Erica discuss why people come back post break up and why do some people rebound faster than others. We share how we come up with relevant content consistently, and how to go about starting from scratch at any age. We’re leaving you with words of wisdom from Psalm 126:5. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gmail. Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Mo' Money, Mo' Problems

Shelby and Erica discuss potential mistakes made when dating in the early stages, how to go about pitching a brand or podcast, and our advice on what to do if your man is intimidated because you make more money than he does. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Isaiah 40:31. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gmail. Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Dating in a Pandemic

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on sliding in DMs, dating apps, and match-making services. They also discuss how to overcome imposter syndrome, how to have difficult conversations with your partner and leave you with words of wisdom from 1 Peter 4:8. . Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gmail. . Website: www.allthingsmelanin.org Thank you for your support. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Be All In or All Out

Shelby and Erica discuss the importance of taking advantage of your single season, how to choose collabs and partnerships that align with your brand, and how to have difficult conversations with a friend. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Psalm 139:13-14. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gmail. Thank you for your support and tuning in every Thursday. Please share and follow us on social media. Instagram: @allthingsmelanin__ Twitter: @melanintv_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/

Manifest but do the work

Shelby and Erica discuss the signs to knowing if you're ready to be in a relationship or if you're not, the game plan we came up with to expand our podcast listenership, and why manifesting isn't enough. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from 1 Peter 5:10. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Understading is All I need

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on why people get caught up in the "talking" phase vs. the dating phase, why we decided to launch our podcast two years ago, and if it's petty or not to cut someone off that didn't show up for you in a tough season. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 19:21. or exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Send'em Back to the Streets

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on Jazmine Sullivan's new Album, Heaux Tales, particularly their song Girl Like Me and if heauxs really win in the long run, how to work smarter and not harder on your journey, and ways to deal with overcoming depressive moods. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from 1 Peter 5:7. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Joe, we did it!!

We're almost a full month into 2021 and it's already A LOT. Shelby and Erica are catching up on everything that's occurred from the insurrection to the inauguration. We delve into our thoughts on saying "I love you" to a friend of the opposite sex, how to set goals for your brand, and our thoughts on if your friends are shady if they don't support your brand/business. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Habakkuk 2:2. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

BYE 2020!!

As Shelby and Erica get ready to say goodbye to 2020, they reflect on what they've learned and let go when it comes to dating and their hopes for future relationships. We look back and celebrate our big and small wins from this year, how to overcome anxious feelings about the new year, and leave you with words of wisdom from Proverbs 3:5. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Happy HOLLA Days

Shelby and Erica share how to approach asking tough questions to your partner and communicating your thoughts effectively. We share how to create your own table/brand from scratch that's authentic to you, if reaching out to a friend you fell out with is a good idea, and leaving you with words of wisdom from Exodus 14:14. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Put a Title On It

Shelby and Erica discuss if putting a title on their relationship is a dealbreaker for them or not. They share their experience as panelists leading a session for the Afros & Audios Podcast Festival, give our thoughts on whether you should re-open the door to failed friendships, and leave you with words of wisdom from Romans 8:28. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

It's Above Me Now

Shelby and Erica discuss the differences in how men and women are raised, and how that impacts their dating lives. We dive into how to create, launch and sustain your brand, our thoughts on moving in with your parents in this economy, and leaving you with words of wisdom from Galatians 6: 9 - 10. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

I'm Not About to Play With You

Shelby and Erica share the 5 stages of dating and what the hardest step to commit to is, taking a chance on yourself on your journey to building your dream life, and our thoughts on moving in with a partner. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Psalms 46:5. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Stepping Out On Faith Feat. Fancy Felder

Shelby and Erica discuss healing and overcoming heartbreak, how to overcome imposter syndrome on your journey, and how to work through hard times and be a team. Francheska Felder joins us for our Dreams & Connection Segment and shares her journey to building a media boutique, SwagHer Magazine & Media. We're leaving you words of wisdom from Joshua 1:9. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend. | Follow Fancy Felder on IG at @swaghermagazine or @fancyswagher.

Set it Off

Shelby and Erica discuss toxic traits and triggers to be aware of when dating, knowing when to elevate or move on in your journey, and knowing when to let go of people who don't add to your life. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Proverbs 31:25. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on IG:@allthingsmelanin__. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

God, it's me again

We're back. This week, Shelby and Erica discuss their viewpoint on friendships and we dive into the importance of having good, genuine friends around, how to overcome microaggressions on your corporate journey as a Black woman, and the stigma associated with seeking therapy. We're leaving you with word of wisdom from Matthew 11:28. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Fumbled the Bag

When it comes to dating and relationships, we're breaking down why the relationship we have with ourselves is so important in being confident when it comes to dating. We're celebrating All Things Melanin turning 3, our journey so far, lessons learned, and what's to come in year 3. We give listener advice on how to maintain purpose and happiness when you're not fulfilled, and leaving you with words of encouragement from 1 Peter 4:10 - 11. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

This is a Package Deal

This week we're sharing our thoughts on why it's so important to be equally yoked in relationships and what that really means, how to pivot successfully when needed, and our thoughts on dating a man with a child. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Proverbs 3: 11-12. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

He Belongs to the Streets

This week, we're breaking down negative stigmas against Black Women when it comes to dating, how we and our brand have grown over the years, and how to remain optimistic in 2020 when it hasn't gone as planned. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Psalm 23. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

How Bad Do You Want It?

This week on the podcast, we're discussing our thoughts on how being an amazing woman doesn't equate to automatically finding your Mr. Right, how to overcome not "feeling like it" on your journey to building your brand, and tips on how to move forward when you meet someone new. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 3:3-4. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

Swag Surf For Your Life

This week, we're discussing modern vs. traditional dating and which style we prefer, the challenges we're enduring in working separately, and why it's important to limit who has access to you in this season. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Hebrews 11:1. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Share this week's episode with a friend.

There's Levels to This

This week, we're sharing what a healthy relationship is and looks like to us, why representation matters so much to us in our brand, and battling loneliness in this tough time. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Mark 9:23. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Don't forget to share this week's episode with a friend.

The 'B' is for Black

This week, we're breaking down entitlement in romantic relationships and if it kills relationships, sharing how to balance being aware of the climate/culture along with being authentic to our brand, and our advice on what to do if your "friend" is doing the most around your man. We're leaving you words of encouragement from Romans 12:2. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Don't forget to subscribe and share this week's episode with a friend.

THIS IS THE COOKOUT!!

This week on our podcast, we're switching things up and sharing our thoughts on the Black Lives Matter movement and the killings that have ignited a movement throughout the U.S. We're diving into our feelings as well as our emotional and mental health. We're sharing how this has impacted the personal and professional relationships in our lives, the impact it's had on creating new content, and leaving you words of encouragement from Psalm 22:30. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site at www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected]. | Please share this week's episode if it resonated with you.

Back at it Again

So, we both recently just go back into the dating game and we're sharing what we've learned so far and our thoughts on dating in 2020. We're sharing how to go from the idea stage to the execution stage when launching your brand, how to overcome imposter syndrome, and leaving you with words of encouragement from Luke 16:10. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Let's Stop Playing

Do you think your ideal relationship is possible? We're discussing realistic relationship goals, the details of our first fashion collab, and knowing when to move when something or someone isn't fulfilling you anymore in life. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Luke 11:9-10. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

First Date Woes

We're sharing what we think it's important to find out on the first date, how to adjust to creating content that is sensitive to Covid-19, and how to get out of a creative rut. We're leaving you with word of encouragement from Deuteronomy 8:2. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Return of the Ex

All exes always attempt to pop back in your life. We're sharing our thoughts on if we'd ever get back with an ex, how we create relevant content for our brand continuously, and our thoughts on if there's such a thing as having standards that are too high. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Matthew 6:33. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Quarantine & Chill

This week, we're sharing our thoughts on if just going with the flow is a good idea in dating, how we divide and conquer in our partnership to work more efficiently, and how to know if you're ready to date again after a long term relationship. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from John 15:1. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. To submit a question for our mentor moment segment, email us at [email protected].

Can I get a Russell Wilson?

This week, we're discussing our thoughts on why people think Russel Wilson is corny, the importance of being authentic to your brand and audience on your journey, and how to handle being laid off in a pandemic. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 18:24. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media. Email your questions for our mentor moment to [email protected].

How to Make Podcasting More than a Hobby with Ona Oghogho of Blk Pod Collective

This week, we have a special guest episode. We're talking with the founder of Blk Pod Collective, Ona Oghogho, a network that fills the void for African American podcasters. Ona shares how to make podcasting more than a hobby, how to build brand credibility through podcasting, how podcasting can expand your brand/reach, and so much more. For more information on the Blk Pod Collective, visit their site at www.blkpodcollective.com. Follow them on social media: Instagram @blkpodcollective, Facebook @Blk Pod Collective and on Twitter at @Blkpod. For exclusive content and more, subscribe to our site www.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media.

Booked, Busy & Unbothered But is Your Business Protected feat. Attorney Kyona McGee

In this week's episode, we're sharing some BIG NEWS!! We're also sharing our thoughts on how to maintain a healthy dating life and our journey to putting ourselves out there, even if it's scary. Attorney Kyona McGee joins us for our Dreams & Connection segment where she drops keys and knowledge about the importance of protecting your business/brand. We're giving our honest feelings when we share how to overcome a toxic work environment and we're leaving you with words of encouragement from Isaiah 42: 2-3. You can connect with Kyona McGee at www.trademarkmystuff.com, on Instagram @kyonathelawer or by email at [email protected]. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org. Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

What's Poppin' - Hot Girl Spring is Near

In this week's episode, we're sharing our thoughts on being connected to someone verses attached in an intimate relationship, how we decide what or who aligns with our brand when it comes to collabing, and also sharing our thoughts on how to have genuine friends in our mentor moment. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Ephesians 2:10. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org. Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Legacy Mindset feat. Ashley McDonough of Melanin on the Map

We're reflecting on the passing of the legend, Kobe Bryant, and the impact he had and still holds in society today. We're discussing our thoughts on setting expectations when dating and what that looks like, and sharing our thoughts on how to stay disciplined when you just don't feel like it. Ashley McDonough of Melanin on the Map joins us for our Dreams & Connections segment to share her journey to building a community and app that focuses on travel for minorities, wealth building, and creating a never before done blueprint. We discuss superwoman syndrome, doing it all and are leaving you with words of encouragement from James 1:2-4. | Follow Ashley on Instagram at @Ashley_Milani_ or @Melaninonthemap, or through her Melanin on the Map app. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/, Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_. Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Either Pull Up or Leave

Have you ever asked a man "what are we?" We're sharing if we have and how to find out your status when dating someone new, being busy vs. productive, and leaving you with a word of wisdom from Galatians 5:22-23. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

The Secret Sauce feat. Erica Range

Do you believe in love at first sight? We're sharing our thoughts on love at first sight and if we think it's real, and how our journey thus far 3 years in the brand building game has been. We chat with Dallas Realtor, Erica, Range, for our guest segment, Dream & Connections, and she drops major keys to home ownership, life and much more! We're giving our advice how to work through being overwhelmed as you build your brand and leaving you with a word from Proverbs 23:7. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy. - You can connect with Erica Range on Instagram @TheRealtorJunkie or @Ericaslocating and on Facebook @Ericaslocating.

Finding "Mr. Right"

If you could shop for a husband at the "husband store," do you know what you would want? We're giving our thoughts on if women have unrealistic views when it comes to dating and looking for "Mr. Right," how we use each other's strengths on our journey to flourish, and knowing when to call it quits with a friendship vs. trying to work it out. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Psalms 34:4. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Back at it Again!!!

It's 2020 and we're back at it again! This week, we're sharing if we believe there's a "right time" to be in a relationship and if we've ever passed up on a good guy, goal setting and what we're focusing on going forward in 2020, and sharing how you can determine if you're friends are real or just plain flaky. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement from Matthew 6:25. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

What 2019 Taught Us + Lessons Learned the Hard Way

As 2019 is getting ready to come to a close, we're reflecting on what we learned in 2019 - the good, the bad, and everything in between. We're dishing on what women should bring to the table in relationships, knowing the difference between criticism and feedback on our journey, and answering a listener letter about when is the right time to introduce the fam to bae. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement from Psalms 27:1. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Wing Woman Chronicles Gone Wrong

How much do you really let social media influence your relationship? We're sharing our thoughts on petty polls and post we see on Instagram, the vision we have for 2020, answering listener letters for our mentor moment, and sharing words of encouragement from Psalms 100. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Playing Small is Cancelled - PERIODT!

No one ever talks about the awkwardness that can come with dating. This week, we're sharing dating questions we HATE and bullets we dodged with Mr. Wrong, maintaining consistency on our journey, giving advice on what to do when no one claps for you, and leaving you with words of wisdom from Philippians 4:13. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Cuffing Season

This week on the podcast, we’re discussing if it’s ok to multi date when putting yourself out there to find "the one", how to be productive on your journey instead of just busy, and if your partner not posting you on social media is shady or ok. We’re leaving you a word of encouragement from Psalm 34:4 that will get you together. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

The Infamous ----List---- - Making the Cut

Even if they don't admit it, every woman has a ----list---- of their dream man/purpose mate. We're discussing what's on our ----list----, working as a team effectively on our journey, discussing our thoughts on not having met Mr. Right yet in our mentor moment, and leaving you with a word of encouragement from Psalm 46.10. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Real Recognize Real

It's so important to recognize a person's real and true patterns and take them at face value. This week, we're discussing recognizing past behavior and patterns in relationships and how that factors into new and budding relationships. We talk understanding how your audience perceives your brand, steering clear of your friend's relationship business, and leaving you with a word from Ephesians 3:20. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.

6 Things You Have to Discuss With Bae

We're discussing 6 topics to discuss with your partner to know if it's real or fake, how we've learned to communicate effectively in our partnership, giving our opinion on how to overcome job frustration, and leaving you with a word from Colossians 3:12-14. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us and share with a friend who would enjoy.

Dating Chronicles: Unfiltered | Collab w/ Stay DADicated

This episode is a special collaboration episode with the men of Stay DADicated! We're talking all things dating and relationships. From mitches, double standards, ----The One,---- rejection, dating as a single father, online dating and much more! This week's episode is packed full dating gems, revelations, and honesty. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Check out the men of Stay DADicated at https://www.staydadicated.com. Share this week's episode if you enjoyed it!

Looking for Love in All The Wrong Places

Are people looking for love or help? This week, we're discussing signs to look for to know if bae is for real or faking it when it comes to his or her motives, if there's a such thing as doing ----too much---- when working your side hustle, how to overcome dating frustrations and leaving you with a word of encouragement from Psalm 27:1. Email us at [email protected] to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_

Oh, So You Fancy Huh?!

This week, we're discussing affordable date night ideas to take bae on, the sacrifices we've made so far on our journey, and the different seasons friendships go through as we grow through life. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement from Mark 11:24-25. Email us at [email protected] to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube:

Me & Somebodys Son

This week, we discuss social media meme's depicting ----relationship goals,---- the journey to being positive - even when you don't feel like it, and our take on friendships in and out of seasons in our mentor moment. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement from Psalm 16:11. Email us at [email protected] to to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube:

2 Years in the Game - It's our Anniversary!

Do you know what your love language is and do you know what your partner's love language is? This week, we're discussing the 5 love languages and their importance in relationships, reflecting on our brand All Things Melanin turning 2 (it's our anniversary) and the lessons we've learned along the way, discussing our views on ----breaks---- in relationships, and leaving you with a word from Romans 5:4-5. Email us at [email protected] to to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube:

The Hustle is Sold Separately featuring Mike of Mike Motivates

We have a special guest joining us - Michael Coleman ll. This week, we discuss our ----ideal mate---- and get real about preferences vs. non negotiables when dating. We dive into Mike's journey as a multifaceted entrepreneur who works full time, co host the Uncover'd podcast, and is co-founder of Crowned Scholars, a non profit that focuses on mentoring and enriching the lives of young black boys, and the challenges he faces on his journey to creating his legacy and making a difference. We get real about how to make the best decision for you and we talk more in depth about Crowned Scholars in our newest guest segment, Dreams ---- Connections. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement form Psalm 10:17. Follow Mike on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/mikemotivates/, Twitter at https://twitter.com/_MikeMotivates. Follow Crowned Scholars at https://www.crownedscholars.org/, Instagram https://www.instagram.com/crownedscholars/, and Twitter https://twitter.com/CrownedScholars . Also, check out the Uncover'd Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/uncoverdpodcast/. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc\u195\u\u402\u\u194\u\u162\u\u195\u\u162\u\u226\u€\u353\u\u194\u\u172\u\u195\u‚\u194\u\u166\uiew_as=subscriber-

Run Those Receipts - Fact Checking 101

Have you ever fact checked someone you're dating? We discuss if we have ever fact checked a guy and ----checked---- his social media. We talk about the risk vs. the reward on our journey - what it's really been like, and our thoughts on putting certain time tables and age limits on women of color. We're leaving you with a word of encouragement from 2 Corinthians 4:13. Email us at [email protected] to to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc\u195\u\u162\u\u226\u‚\u172\u\u194\u\u166\uiew_as=subscriber

Dat's My Type

When it comes to dating and relationships, the first part to meeting someone is being open to receive a new love or potential love. This week, we're discussing if you're really ----ready---- to mingle when you're feeling lonely, stepping out on faith on your journey to building your brand, and overcoming superwoman syndrome - doing it all. Then we're leaving you with special words of encouragement to get you through your week coming out of Genesis 11:6. Email us at [email protected] to to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc\u226\u€\u166\uiew_as=subscriber

Shooting Your Shot featuring Jay of The Black Detour

We have a special guest joining us - Jay of the Black Detour. This week, we're discussing if women should shoot their shot so they can attract/get the man of their dreams, what Jay wish he knew prior to starting The Black Detour, diving into how he built The Black Detour in our newest segment ----Dreams and Connections----, and how to block out the naysers and haters when staring your dream. Then we're leaving you with words of encouragement from 2 Timothy 1:7. Follow The Black Detour on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackDetour/, Twitter: https://twitter.com/theblackdetour and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_black_detour/.-Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc\u226\u€\u166\uiew_as=subscriber-Email your mentor moment questions to us at [email protected]

True Life: I Want it All

This week, we discuss is there a such thing as ----having it all---- in a relationship and if it's possible. We also give our take on how we communicate effectively to on another on our journey to building our brand, how to push through distractions and get things done, and how God does what He does for us, even though we may not understand. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc…iew_as=subscriber

Too Many Chances .. Too Much Drama

Do you believe in second chances? We're discussing what we think of second chances when it comes to dating, putting your heart into your brand, how to decompress during the week, and confiding in the Lord with all your desires.Connect with us:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc…iew_as=subscriber

Break'em Off

Everyone has a breaking point, what's yours? This week, we're discussing what our breaking point is and how we got there, being about your brand all day every day, showing gratitude for all things-even when you're not feeling it, and how when God is with you, everything else ends up working for your good.Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org.Connect with us:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc…iew_as=subscriber

Put Some Respek on my Name

This week, we're switching it up a little bit. We're discussing green flags (good signs/qualities in your partner) to be on the look out for when dating, building your self confidence and knowing your worth as you build your brand along your journey. We're also talking how to carry out your vision when you're the only one who can see it and leaving you with a word.Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org.Connect with us:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dc…iew_as=subscriber

The Struggle Is REAL

This week, we're dishing on how our goals are going and our hopes for the remainder of 2019. We're also talking why society romanticizes struggle love, establishing healthy boundaries for our brand and one another on our journey, discerning seasonal relationships, and leaving you with a word to get you through the rest of the day. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Connect with us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dcVNSuYF5lG_pPmJg?view_as=subscriber

Act Up You Can Get ....

We're getting a few things off our chest. This week, we're discussing being in uncomfortable dating situations and how to deal with them, how to have the same energy you have on your 9-5 for your 5-9, handling being pressured by your biological clock, and how loving like God is the best thing you can do on your journey through life. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org.Connect with us:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dcVNSuYF5lG_pPmJg?view_as=subscriber

Lessons I Learned From My Dad

This week's episode is dedicated to our Dad's in honor of Father's Day and to all the dads out there who are active and loving their child(ren). This week, we're talking the best dating advice our dads have given us (that we've actually taken), how our dads have influenced our journey to building our brand, and dealing with comparison envy. We're leaving you with the thought "if God is for us, who can be against us?" Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org.Connect with us:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dcVNSuYF5lG_pPmJg?view_as=subscriber

Is Being "Miss Independent" Hindering You?

This week, we're talking if being "Miss Independent" hinders you from dating successfully, talking about our journey to being fully trademarked, making the right decision for you as you go through life and leaving your worries at the feet of God! Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Connect with us on social media.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melanintv_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dcVNSuYF5lG_pPmJg?view_as=subscriber

LIT ALL SUMMER '19

We're starting summer '19 off with a BANG and keeping that same energy all summer long! Congrats to all spring 2019 graduates, you did it! This week, we're discussing how having unresolved baggage can impact easing back into the dating scene and our thoughts on the BYOB conference last month in the ATL for creatives and millennials of color. We also delve into our thoughts on why those "closest" to us support us the least and leaving you with a word you didn't know you needed. Subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Connect with us on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJOn24dcVNSuYF5lG_pPmJg?view_as=subscriber Twitter: https://twitter.com/melanintv_

Workplace Romance Gone Wrong

Has anyone ever tried to shoot their shot at you and it went horribly wrong?! This week, we're talking shooting your shot in the workplace and if we ever would, making decisions for your brand, dealing with frustrations in the "in between" stage and going to God for peace in the midst of your storm. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org so you never miss an update.

You Do What You Want When You Poppin'

Your single season is the MOST important season of your life, don't waste it!! This week, we're discussing embracing your single season, the importance of research and knowledge, focusing on self love for ourselves, and focusing on God's promises that He has for us. Be sure subscribe to our podcast and our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org.

Red Flags - What To Look For

When it comes to dating, we have to be really aware of who we "entertain." This week, we're talking red flags to look out for when getting to know someone new, turning an idea into a reality, dealing with friends who've switched up on you, and letting God fight your battles, even when they seem bigger than you. Be sure to check out our website at www.allthingsmelanin.org and SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a new episode.

I Get it from my Momma

This weeks episode is dedicated to our Momma's in honor of Mother's Day and to all the moms out there killing it every day. This week, we're talking the best dating and relationship advice our moms have given us, the important role our mom's played in us beginning our brand, talking about our 18 year old selves(yikes) and keeping your eyesight on God! Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and follow us on all social media platforms.

Singlepeoplemeet.com

When it comes to meeting someone, where do single people in their mid 20's to 30's meet? We're talking if we're ready for a relationship, putting yourself out there on your journey to building your brand, finding happiness when things aren't going so well, and God's promise to us.

I got 5 on it

When it comes to dating, we have to make some tough decisions on what we need verses what we want. We're talking what our "ideal mate" looks like and what qualities he would have if we only had $5 to "build" him. We discuss impact over perfection on our journey, dealing with rejection, and trusting God in ALL things we do, not just some.

What Really Matters

This week, we're discussing what our top dealbreakers are and why it's important to stick by them when dating or getting to know someone. We're talking valuable lessons we've learned along the way and how it's shaping our journey, how we let culture define us and why we need to stop. Lastly, we're discussing the importance of giving God your stress and problems to deal with and just having faith in Him. Be sure to subscribe!

Just Not That Into You

When you first meet a person of the opposite sex, do you pre-judge them? Well we do. We're discussing what not to say when approaching a woman and what is ok to do, getting out of our comfort zone on our journey, dealing with unsupportive friends or famiy, and leaving you with a word to think about.

It's Storytime!

We're talking about our thoughts on if some men are intimidated when in a relationship with a succesful women, the importance of celebrating milestones on your journey, moving on without closure, and asking BIG when going to God in prayer.

It is What it is

This episosde, we tackle the hard discussion of what to bring up from past relationships when dating someone new. We discuss what's ok to bring up and how to do it tastefully. We talk balancing our passion with a full time, 9-5 job, having confidence in the decisions we make, even if family/friends don't agree. We finish off with a word that will lift your spirit and get you through the rest of the work week.

What You Won't Do, Someone Else Will

This week, we're talking about how much information is ok to share when you're just getting to know someone verses dating exclusively. We discuss our journey building a brand thus far and the impact it's had on our friendship, how to balance working hard and playing hard, and also, we talk about trusting in the Lord on our journey. This week, we're getting a few things off our chest and we're not holding anything back.

Male Bestfriends, Oversharing, Forgiveness & More!

Do you believe that men and women can be just friends? We're talking about the pros and cons of having a male bestfriend, how much we choose to share our brand with family and friends, what we think of the Jussie Smollet case, and the importance of forgiveness.

The Set Up

Is potential enough? We're discussing if we'd stay with a man soley for his potential, the power of God's favor on your journey, knowing when to back off from unmotivated friends or family, and the importance of being in God's prescence.

Happy Valentine's Day!

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On a scale of raggedy to fine

On a scale of raggedy to FINE, we discuss the role physical attraction plays in dating, being a representation of your brand 24/7, always being on, and how when God puts you on, it doesn't matter who doesn't.

The Date From Hell

Have you ever had a date from hell that you just can't believe is real? We're discussing dating ettiquette and our thoughts on being uncomfortable in a dating situation, the vision we have for our brand and what we hope to accomplish, and maintaing our mental health. We go in depth about being in the waiting season of your life before going into the reaping season, and the honest, raw emotions we feel in the in between stage.

What 2018 Taught Us

2018 has been a YEAR. With a few weeks left, we’re doing some reflecting. This week, we’re discussing what we’ve learned from our past relationships, the importance of growing with your brand, the importance picking your tribe of friends, and waiting on God.

Are you supporting the purpose on your life?

He’s cute BUT can he support the anointing on your life? We’re discussing the importance of waiting for your purpose mate, what does balance actually look like, tangible ways to keep your peace, and learning how to wait on God.

Hey Big Head

Could you see us on a dating show LOL? We’re discussing if we could be on a dating show and find true love, being in a rut and finding our way out, and overcoming disappointment. We have an honest conversation about being angry with ourselves, God and asking BIG when speaking with God in prayer.

Let Me Clear My Throat - Let’s Get to it

We’re getting some things off our chest and getting to the real. From debating if it’s ok to put a timetable on your man to doing business with friends and living with anxiety, we’re being brutally honest and getting to the business this week.

Relationship Goals The Key to Life

We're talking real relationship goals versus social media goals, how the devil tried it, overcoming cultural norms, and how faith is a major key to life.

A Private Matter

This week, we're talking privacy in relationships, what we've encountered on our journey this week, and our faith walk!

Shoot your shot - what you waiting for?

This week we're talking shooting your shot and if that's attractive, roadblocks we've hit, and more!

What's Love - The Male Vs. Woman Perspective

This episode, we have a special guest, the founder of The Black Detour, Jay Colby. We're talking about unconditional love vs. conditional love, the journey to being successful, and how to stay motivated. Then as always, we're leaving you with words of wisdom with our words of encouragement.

The Approach

This episode we're talking overcoming dating and social media envy, positioning yourself and brand correctly, and things we've learned along the way.

Building a man - where they do that at?

On this episode, we're talking about plugging a man, any man into your perfect scenario. We talk stepping out on faith with your passion and how faith can take you places hustling can't!

Are we riding and dying or nawh?

This episode we're talking about being a ride or die chick and if it's healthy. We're talking money management, budgeting, and faithing it when times get hard.

Issa an entire word!

This episode we're talking about our thoughts on online dating, practicing patience, and having faith when we don't have anything else.

Situationships Monogamy Faith ?!

On this episode, we talk situationships, love, fake friends, and define our faith walk.

Chiiilleee - They REALLLY tried it!

This episode we're talking "talking" fails, business roadblocks, answering questions all while keeping it 100!

Intro Episode - Allow us to introduce ourselves

All Things Melanin Podcast is an entertainment and faith-based podcast that focuses on life, love, career, travel and everything in between. We (Shelby ---- Erica)introduce ourselves, our purpose, and what you can expect from us week to week.

Play Small is Cancelled - PERIODT!!

No one ever talks about the awkwardness that can come with dating. This week, we're sharing dating questions we HATE and bullets we dodged with Mr. Wrong, maintaining consistency on our journey, giving advice on what to do when no one claps for you, and leaving you with words of wisdom from Philippians 4:13. Email us at [email protected] or slide in our DM's on Instagram at @allthingsmelanin__ to submit a question for our mentor moment segment. Subscribe to our blog at wwww.allthingsmelanin.org and connect with us on social media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/allthingsmelanintv/, Instagram:www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/ , Twitter: twitter.com/melanintv_ . Be share to rate us, tag us while you listen, and share with a friend who would enjoy.